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Saturday, May 31, 2008

you're all i need

" Two in a row, I toiled in vain.
Yet not a thorn to start again.
I'll search, I'll quest, I'll even cast...
So long the time allows this dream to last."



-These last four lines are excerpts from my poem written in 1987-





Just like any other boring day of the week, I still found myself sitting on that chair inside that seemingly boring office as well. Someone knocked at the door and before I got there to open it, a guy in a blue shirt entered only to ask me, " Nandyan ba si Amy?" (Is Amy around?) That was a brief glance. The very first time I laid eyes on him. It was 14th of February, more than fourteen years back.

That short meeting was followed by few more acquaintances and several talks on the phone. His voice struck me. Actually, that 's one trait I like most about him. He always had a way to surprise me. He often paid unexpected visits. He would come to the office all the way from Cavite where he was assigned, wearing that so familiar camouflage jacket... waited for hours until I finished my work for the day.

After almost two months of constantly dating, I formally accepted him. That was April 8 of the same year. I gave him a card... a card with two diamonds meaning he won over my heart because he got the highest one.




Is it LOVE I will search?
NO for love comes when I least expect it.

Is it LOVE I will quest?
NO for love comes from the most unexpected places.

Is it LOVE I will cast?
NO for love moves in mysterious ways.




I did not find LOVE for it is LOVE that found me....



Thursday, May 29, 2008

getting in motion

INVITING:
Playing is in every child's life.
It is an essential stage of growing up.
It's the basic skill any child should know for the development of ones well-being.

Having fun seems endless to young children because they don't think about time.
They are curious about anything and practically everything.

Kids learn to play and play to learn.
They learn simple things during the early years because it's the time when they first interact with others... make friends... discover their abilities and defend themselves when they get hurt.
It's the best time to express their feelings and emotions.



They have the freedom of choice which games to play and whom they want to play with. Parents are the ideal first playmates. Home is their first playground.

Giving quality time with kids by playing with them builds a strong bond between parents and children. It brings great joy to them knowing that their interests and desires are being supported and appreciated.

Through playing, children enhance their creativity and imagination... learn to accept
mistakes and defeat..
practice self-control and discipline. It molds them to become independent individuals. It makes them socially aware and deal with the changing environment.






DISAPPOINTING:

Children of today's generation are far different from the children many years back. The games that we played then are so traditional that most kids now will never take time to even try out. Maybe because their free time is being dominated by playing games with high tech gadgets like PlayStation portable or game boy ( a cheaper version). Internet greatly influenced gaming history like network and online games. Children are also fond of arcade games, Wii games, Mobile Games, PlayStation 2 (PS2), PlayStation 3 (PS3), Video Games. When I was then in primary school, during weekends and summer vacations, we used to play outdoor games like: agawan base, patintero, step or piko, taguan, siatong, tumbang-preso, luksong-tinik, luksong-baka and chinese garter. These are games that require physical abilities such as jumping, hopping, throwing, running, skipping and mental skills like developing strategies in order to win the game. Playing for us then was a tiring activity. We perspired a lot. It felt so good having so much fun. We also played some indoor games like: snakes and ladders, millionaire's game, scrabble, card games, monopoly, tour around the world, boggle or word factory and dominoes. We never run out of games to play as long as we have time but of course, home works should be made first before anything else and chores should be done as scheduled. The only handheld electronic games I played during my childhood was Game & Watch made by Nintendo.




There was also the original Family Computer video game console released by Nintendo.





UNDERRATING:
Technology gives way to a different level of stimulating children's awareness to new and exciting electronic games. Certainly, Internet provides them with useful tools to learn valuable educational skills in just one click of a mouse. But then, such quick access on collective knowledge made available in the Internet, somehow creates anxiety amongst children who always want something different ... something new. They expect more.

Children spent hours in front of the computer. Just sitting, typing and eating while playing. It becomes so unhealthy to them. Keeping them busy with the latest game online is such a waste of time. They are not motivated to exert energy... to move and use their motor skills. And if they stop by turning off and switching off their gadgets, they feel bored to death.

Overcoming their boredom may be hard for us for we adults have the same tendencies but we can do something. We can encourage our children to divert their attention into more entertaining and interesting activities like bringing them to parks or educational sites once in a while... or may be simply biking outside... inviting them for outdoor games like badminton or basketball... We may also introduce the games we used to play.

Too much of everything is bad. We have to guide our children in their quest for life. We have to know their strengths and weaknesses and learn how to provide them their needs without sacrificing the true essence of giving them "playing time".


Saturday, May 24, 2008

the reason why


It's been years since I last posted entries to my journal. I can't remember exactly the date but I clearly recall the incident that made me decide to terminate such daily routine.

Keeping a journal then was something so private and concealed. Diaries were even hidden securely on safes or closets. Some of which were provided with locks to keep other people from invading the owners' privacy and the materials' confidentiality.

But todays perception about maintaining a record of daily events, experiences, feelings and ideas has become a phenomenon.


According to Wikipedia, the modern blog evolved from the online diary, where people would keep a running account of their personal lives. Justin Hall, who began eleven years of personal blogging in 1994 while a student at Swarthmore College, is generally recognized as one of the earliest bloggers, as is Jerry Pournelle. Dave Winer's Scripting News is also credited with being one of the oldest and longest running web logs.

After a slow start, blogging rapidly gained in popularity. Blog usage spread during 1999 and the years following, being further popularized by the near-simultaneous arrival of the first hosted blog tools:


  • Open Diary launched in October 1998, soon growing to thousands of online diaries. Open Diary innovated the reader comment, becoming the first blog community where readers could add comments to other writers' blog entries.
  • Brad Fitzpatrick, a well known blogger started LiveJournal in March 1999.
  • Andrew Smales created Pitas.com in July 1999 as an easier alternative to maintaining a "news page" on a website, followed by Diaryland in September 1999, focusing more on a personal diary community.
  • Evan Williams and Meg Hourihan (Pyra Labs) launched blogger.com in August 1999 (purchased by Google in February 2003)



Open Diary launched in October 1998, soon growing to thousands of online diaries. It innovated the reader comment, becoming the first blog community where readers could add comments to other writers' blog entries.




Now that I gained knowledge on the origin of "blog". I can't wait to get started but the best way to begin of course, is to feature my own origin. So my initial entry is about it.


This is the time to gather my ideas and express my innermost thoughts and share them to other blog enthusiasts and public readers in general, by utilizing all possible resources available in the internet.


long way to go...


Friday, May 23, 2008

three girls and a boy

Malu and Mye


Mahlen


Ddel

Being the eldest of four siblings, I became responsible at an early age. I took charge of the house when our mother was out and since our father was then working as an overseas contract worker in the Middle East, I had to be emotionally and mentally mature. As i grow up, I learned a lot of things which made me a better person... An obedient daughter... a loving sister and a trusting friend. I remember, my mother always told me that I have to take best care of my sisters, be dependable and lead by example.


Mye, Malu and Mahlen


At first we were only three with age gap of two years. We were fondly called “tatlong maria” because our names start with Maria. When our father decided to stop working abroad and stayed home for a while, mother got pregnant and after thirteen long years of patiently waiting , their prayers had been answered. They were blessed with a son…

Our wish had been granted. Happiness filled our hearts as this little boy brought joy and pride to our family. He became the center of our concern and deep affection.

I realized that GOD's blessings truly come as a surprise. Best things happen in HIS time.


Mahlen,Ddel,Mommy, Mye and Malu (Daddy was in Guam)


Wednesday, May 21, 2008

final destination

Based on the holy scriptures,
men are created equal in the eyes of GOD.
GOD is the source of all goodness and divine simplicity...
HE is the supreme being, the maker of every
life there is.
Only HE knows...
when and how it will end.
Generations upon generations.
Civilizations after civilizations.
Significant people made a mark in history.


Diana Frances Spencer was born into the British aristocracy, was the youngest daughter of Edward John Spencer and his first wife, Frances Spencer. She was born at Park House, Sandringham in Norfolk, England on 1 July 1961. She was the first wife of Charles, Prince of Wales. Their sons, Princes William and Henry (Harry), are second and third in line to the thrones of the United Kingdom and fifteen other Commonwealth Realms.

A public figure from the announcement of her engagement to Prince Charles, Diana remained the focus of near-constant media scrutiny in the United Kingdom and around the world up to and during her marriage, and after her subsequent divorce.

Diana's life and legacy have been mixed but a popular fascination with the Princess endures. The long awaited Coroner's Inquest reported in April 2008 that Diana had been unlawfully killed by the driver and the following paparazzi. On 31 August 1997, Diana died after a high speed car crash in the Pont de l'Alma road tunnel in Paris along with Dodi Al-Fayed





Marilyn Monroe was born Norma Jeane Mortenson on June 1, 1926 in Los Angeles, California, to Gladys Baker. As the identity of her father is undetermined, she was later baptized Norma Jeane Baker.

Norma Jeane spent most of her childhood in foster homes and orphanages until 1937, when she moved in with family friend Grace McKee Goddard.

Marilyn Monroe personified Hollywood glamour with an unparalleled glow and energy that enamored the world. Although she was an alluring beauty with voluptuous curves and a generous pout, Marilyn was more than a '50s sex goddess. Her apparent vulnerability and innocence, in combination with an innate sensuality, has endeared her to the global consciousness. She dominated the age of movie stars to become, without question, the most famous woman of the 20th Century.

She was ready to shed her "shallow blonde" image by 1955. It had gotten her into the spotlight, but now that she had the opportunity and experience, Marilyn wanted to pursue serious acting.

Sadly, in a shocking turn of events on the early morning of August 5, 1962, 36-year-old Marilyn died in her sleep at her Brentwood, California home. The world was stunned. Marilyn's vibrant spirit and beauty made it impossible to believe she was gone. On August 8, 1962, Marilyn's body was laid to rest in the Corridor of Memories, #24, at Westwood Memorial Park in Los Angeles, California.





John Fitzgerald "Jack" Kennedy was born at 83 Beals Street in Brookline, Massachusetts on Tuesday, May 29, 1917, the second son of Joseph P. Kennedy, Sr., and Rose Fitzgerald. Kennedy, who was to be the first U.S. president born in the twentieth century, lived in Brookline for his first ten years of life.

He graduated cum laude from Harvard with a degree in international affairs in June 1940, and his thesis was published in July 1940 as a book entitled Why England Slept, and became a bestseller.

John F. Kennedy was sworn in as the 35th President at noon on January 20, 1961. In his inaugural address he spoke of the need for all Americans to be active citizens, famously saying, "Ask not what your country can do for you; ask what you can do for your country."

President Kennedy was assassinated in Dallas, Texas, at 12:30 p.m. Central Standard Time on November 22, 1963, while on a political trip to Texas. He was shot twice in the neck and head, and was pronounced dead at 1:00 p.m. Lee Harvey Oswald was arrested at a movie theater at about 1:50 p.m.





MOTHER TERESA was born Agnes Gonxha Bojaxhiu in Skopje*, Macedonia, on August 26**, 1910. Her family was of Albanian descent. At the age of twelve, she felt strongly the call of God. She knew she had to be a missionary to spread the love of Christ.

For over forty years she ministered to the poor, sick, orphaned, and dying, while guiding the Missionaries of Charity's expansion, first throughout India and then in other countries. Her work has been recognized and acclaimed throughout the world and she has received a number of awards and distinctions.

Her Missionaries of Charity continued to expand, and at the time of her death it was operating 610 missions in 123 countries, including hospices and homes for people with HIV/AIDS, leprosy and tuberculosis, soup kitchens, children's and family counseling programs, orphanages, and schools.

In April 1996, Mother Teresa fell and broke her collar bone. In August she suffered from malaria and failure of the left heart ventricle. She had heart surgery, but it was clear that her health was declining. On March 13, 1997, she stepped down from the head of Missionaries of Charity and died on September 5, 1997.





Karol Józef Wojtyła known as John Paul II since his October 1978 election to the papacy, was born in the Polish town of Wadowice on May 18, 1920. He was the youngest of three children born to Karol Wojtyła and Emilia Kaczorowska.

John Paul II was Pope during a period in which the Catholic Church's influence declined in developed countries but expanded in the Third World. During his reign, the pope traveled extensively, visiting over 100 countries, more than any of his predecessors. He remains one of the most-traveled world leaders in history. He was fluent in numerous languages: his native Polish and also Italian, French, German, English, Spanish, Croatian, Portuguese, Russian and Latin.[1] As part of his special emphasis on the universal call to holiness, he canonized a great number of people.

In the light of Christ risen from the dead, on 2 April a.D. 2005, at 9.37 p.m., while Saturday was drawing to a close and the Lord's Day was already beginning, the Octave of Easter and Divine Mercy Sunday, the Church's beloved Pastor, John Paul II, departed this world for the Father.





Adolf Hitler was born on 20th April, 1889, in the small Austrian town of Braunau near the German border. Both Hitler's parents had come from poor peasant families. As a boy, he was often beaten by his father. His educational slump was a rebellion against his father.

When Germany entered World War I in August 1914, he petitioned King Ludwig III of Bavaria for permission to serve in a Bavarian regiment. This request was granted, and Adolf Hitler enlisted in the Bavarian army. After World War I, the Nazi Party gained power during Germany's period of crisis by exploiting nationalism, antisemitism, anti-communism, propaganda and by Hitler's charismatic oratory. The Nazis executed or assassinated many of their opponents, restructured the state economy, rearmed the armed forces and established a totalitarian and fascist dictatorship.

The German Invasion of Poland in 1939 caused the British and French Empires to declare war on Germany, effectively beginning World War II. During the final days of the war in 1945, as Berlin was being invaded and destroyed by the Red Army, Hitler married Eva Braun. Less than 24 hours later, the two committed suicide in the Führerbunker.





Albert Einstein was born into a Jewish family in Ulm, Württemberg, Germany on March 14, 1879. His father was Hermann Einstein, a salesman and engineer. His mother was Pauline Einstein.

When Einstein was five, his father showed him a pocket compass. Einstein realized that something in empty space was moving the needle and later stated that this experience made "a deep and lasting impression". As he grew, Einstein built models and mechanical devices for fun, and began to show a talent for mathematics. At age 16, he first performed his famous thought experiment visualizing traveling alongside a beam of light.

In 1921 Einstein was awarded the Nobel Prize in Physics, "for his services to Theoretical Physics, and especially for his discovery of the law of the photoelectric effect".

In his book The World as I See It, he wrote: "A knowledge of the existence of something we cannot penetrate, of the manifestations of the profoundest reason and the most radiant beauty, which are only accessible to our reason in their most elementary forms—it is this knowledge and this emotion that constitute the truly religious attitude; in this sense, and in this alone, I am a deeply religious man."

On April 17, 1955, Albert Einstein experienced internal bleeding caused by the rupture of an aortic aneurysm. He died in Princeton Hospital early the next morning at the age of 76, having continued to work until near the end. Einstein's remains were cremated and his ashes were scattered.

In 1999, Albert Einstein was named "Person of the Century" by Time magazine, the Gallup poll recorded him as the fourth most admired person of the 20th century and according to The 100: A Ranking of the Most Influential Persons in History, Einstein is "the greatest scientist of the twentieth century and one of the supreme intellects of all time."





Abraham Lincoln was born on February 12, 1809, to Thomas Lincoln and Nancy Hanks, two uneducated farmers, in a one-room log cabin on the 348-acre Sinking Spring Farm, in southeast Hardin County, Kentucky.

Lincoln began his political career in 1832, at age 23, with an unsuccessful campaign for the Illinois General Assembly, as a member of the Whig Party. On November 6, 1860, Lincoln was elected as the 16th President of the United States, beating Democrat Stephen A. Douglas, John C. Breckinridge of the Southern Democrats, and John Bell of the new Constitutional Union Party. He was the first Republican president.

President-elect Lincoln evaded possible assassins in Baltimore, and on February 23, 1861, arrived in disguise in Washington, D.C. At his inauguration on March 4, 1861, the German American Turners formed Lincoln's bodyguard; and a sizable garrison of federal troops was also present, ready to protect the capital from Confederate invasion and local insurrection. He successfully led his country through its greatest crisis, the Civil War, only to be assassinated less than a month after the war's end by John Wilkes Booth on April 15 1865.





JOSE RIZAL , the national hero of the Philippines and pride of the Malayan race, was born on June 19, 1861, in the town of Calamba, Laguna. He was the seventh child in a family of 11 children (2 boys and 9 girls). Both his parents were educated and belonged to distinguished families.

At the age of 3, he learned the alphabet from his mother; at 5, while learning to read and write, he already showed inclinations to be an artist like molding of clay. At the age 8, he wrote a Tagalog poem, "Sa Aking Mga Kabata." On May 3, 1882, he sailed for Spain where he continued his studies at the Universidad Central de Madrid. On June 21, 1884, at the age of 23, he was conferred the degree of Licentiate in Medicine and on June 19,1885, at the age of 24, he finished his course in Philosophy and Letters with a grade of "excellent."

Having traveled extensively in Europe, America and Asia, he mastered 22 languages and other native dialects. A versatile genius, he was an architect, artists, businessman, cartoonist, educator, economist, ethnologist, scientific farmer, historian, inventor, journalist, linguist, musician, mythologist, nationalist, naturalist, novelist, opthalmic surgeon, poet, propagandist, psychologist, scientist, sculptor, sociologist, and theologian.

He was an expert swordsman and a good shot. Rizal, the greatest apostle of Filipino nationalism, published, while in Europe, several works with highly nationalistic and revolutionary tendencies. In March 1887, he wrote NOLI ME TANGERE, a satirical novel exposing the arrogance and despotism of the Spanish clergy, was published in Berlin. On September 18, 1891, EL FILIBUSTERISMO, his second novel and a sequel to the NOLI and more revolutionary and tragic than the latter, was printed in Ghent. Because of his fearless exposures of the injustices committed by the civil and clerical officials, he was imprisoned in Fort Santiago from July 6, 1892 to July 15, 1892.

When the Philippine Revolution started on August 26, 1896, his enemies lost no time in pressing him down. In his prison cell, he wrote an untitled poem, now known as "Ultimo Adios" which is considered a masterpiece and a living document expressing not only the hero’s great love of country but also that of all Filipinos. After a mock trial, he was convicted of rebellion, sedition and of forming illegal association. In the cold morning of December 30, 1896, Rizal, a man whose 35 years of life had been packed with varied activities which proved that the Filipino has capacity to equal if not excel even those who treat him as a slave, was shot at Bagumbayan Field.





Sir Isaac Newton was born December 25 1642 at Woolsthorpe Manor in Woolsthorpe-by-Colsterworth, a hamlet in the county of Lincolnshire. At the time of Newton's birth, England had not adopted the latest papal calendar and therefore his date of birth was recorded as Christmas Day, 25 December 1642. Born prematurely, he was a small child; his mother Hannah Ayscough reportedly said that he could have fit inside a quart mug.

He is an English physicist and mathematician, who was the culminating figure of the scientific revolution of the 17th century. In optics, his discovery of the composition of white light integrated the phenomena of colours into the science of light and laid the foundation for modern physical optics. In mechanics, his three laws of motion, the basic principles of modern physics, resulted in the formulation of the law of universal gravitation. In mathematics, he was the original discoverer of the infinitesimal calculus. Newton's Philosophiae Naturalis Principia Mathematica (Mathematical Principles of Natural Philosophy), 1687, was one of the most important single works in the history of modern science

In the 1690s Newton wrote a number of religious tracts dealing with the literal interpretation of the Bible. Although the laws of motion and universal gravitation became Newton's best-known discoveries, he warned against using them to view the universe as a mere machine. He said, "Gravity explains the motions of the planets, but it cannot explain who set the planets in motion. God governs all things and knows all that is or can be done." In his own lifetime, Newton wrote more on religion than he did on natural science. He believed in a rationally immanent world.

Newton refashioned the world governed by an interventionist God into a world crafted by a God that designs along rational and universal principles. These principles were available for all people to discover, allowed people to pursue their own aims fruitfully in this life, not the next, and to perfect themselves with their own rational powers. Newton saw God as the master creator whose existence could not be denied in the face of the grandeur of all creation.

In old age Newton's health began to deteriorate: when was eighty he began to suffer from incontinence, due to a weakness in the bladder, and his movement and diet became restricted. He ate mainly vegetables and broth, and was plagued by a stone in the bladder. In 1725 he fell ill with gout, and endured hemorrhoids the following year. Meanwhile, the pain from his bladder stones grew worse, and on March 19, 1727, he blacked out, never to regain consciousness. He died on March 20, at the age of eighty-five, and was buried in Westminster Abbey; his funeral attended by all of England's eminent figures, and his coffin carried by noblemen. It was, a contemporary noted, a funeral fit for a king.





M O S E S was born to a Hebrew mother who hid him when a Pharaoh ordered all newborn Hebrew boys to be killed, and ended up being adopted into the Egyptian royal family.

After killing an Egyptian slave master, he fled and became a shepherd, and was later commanded by God to deliver the Hebrews from slavery. After the Ten Plagues were unleashed on Egypt, he led the Hebrew slaves out of Egypt, through the Red Sea, where they wandered in the desert for 40 years.

He was the law-giver, the bearer of the ten commandments of GOD. Despite living to 120, he did not enter the Land of Israel, as he disobeyed God when God instructed him on how to bring forth water from a rock in the desert.





J E S U S was born in Bethlehem. His birth came about in this way: His mother, Mary, was engaged to Joseph. Before their marriage was consummated by having physical relations, Mary was found to be with child from the Holy Spirit. HE's the son of GOD.

And the child grew, becoming strong in spirit; and the grace of God was on Him. Jesus matured, increasing in wisdom and in favor with God and man.

When Jesus was about thirty years of age, a man named John the Baptist came preaching and baptizing in the wilderness.
Jesus came to the Jordan river to be baptized by John then He went up out of the water, and the heavens opened to Him, and He saw the Spirit of God descend like a dove and light on Him. And a voice from heaven said, “This is my beloved Son, in whom I am well pleased.”

While Jesus, the son of God, lived on earth in the form of a man, He was tempted in all the same ways we are, yet He never sinned. This showed that Jesus indeed could be the Savior of mankind—the lamb sent from God.

J
esus revealed himself as the promised Savior in many ways, including performing countless miracles. Those suffering from different kinds of diseases were brought to Him, and He healed them all. His fame went everywhere, and great crowds came together to hear Him teach and to be healed of their diseases.

He preached that the end of the current world would come unexpectedly, and that he would return to judge the world, especially according to how they treated the vulnerable; for this reason, he called on his followers to be ever alert and faithful.

Jesus also taught that repentance was necessary to escape hell, and promised to give those who believe in him eternal life (John 3:16–18). He was betrayed, arrested and crucified to death. On the third day, he had been ressurected and ascended into heaven. Jesus promised to come again to fulfill the remainder of Messianic prophecy.



(biographies derived from wikipedia, images and other sources from google, my deepest gratitude for completing this blog)




Life begins when we open our eyes and see the light for the first time. As the sun rises up in each morning, we look forward to a day full of GOD's blessings. Everyone of us has own journey to travel. We are given free will to choose which road to take. Is it the voyage to life's most agonizing traits or the flight to the highest peak of happiness and contentment.

And as we had done our share in this world,
served the purpose of our existence
whether we accomplish our ultimate goals or not,
we will head back to one direction,
the light at the end of the tunnel...
the way to meet our
final destination,
in the hands of our

G R E A T

C R E A T O R.



Monday, May 19, 2008

take a pick

please don't ask me
if dreaming of you
is hard habit to break.
loving you, is what matters most.

you're all i need
and you keep me breathless.
because of you
i will survive.

here i am
always with open arms.
i give my all
and everything i own.

believe in me
you bring me to life.
yesterday and even now
you are my immortal.

don't give up on us
keep holding on.
even low or even high,
love will keep us alive.

where ever you will go,
take me to your heart.
because all my life
you're still the one.

but somewhere down the road
a sudden change of heart.
tears begun to flow,
the day you went away.

i have nothing
when you're gone
but i know someday,
love will lead you back.

the longer i wait
the lesser reason to hope
in my life,
nothing compares to you.

my heart will go on
and soon, i'll be over you.
time after time
you'll just be part of me.

got to go my own way
forcing myself to forget.
as tears go by,
i found my way back into love.

through the years
i've found a new love.
now that you're here
i will never let you go.
against all odds,
till death do us part...



( do these titles sound familiar to you?
then tell me your favorites.
i'll be so glad to add them to my lists )

no secrets, just fate


Now see them after more than 40 years and still counting...
Two people bound to share life together, forever.

I have heard a lot of stories about relationships and I too agree that there are no secrets to a successful marriage but there are some aspects that will help battle marital problems and maintain a lasting union… make each moment truly meaningful.

According to R. Morgan Griffin featured in WebMD, there are 10 Secrets to a Better Love Life.


• Rekindle the spark in your romance
• Get away from home
• Try a style makeover
• Explore your fantasies
• Ask your partner the same question
• Try something new
• Seek help for problems
• Take your time
• Don’t worry about everyone else
• Make an effort


I believe that these suggestions coming from the experts may in one way or another put marriage in the right track but I know that there are some people who will have the same opinion as mine that the basis of a long-term relationship depends on how partners relate to each other… In our society where women are predominantly plain housewives, some of these suggestions are not relevant to them. Mothers are considered the “Light of Every Home”, I truly believe it is in their hands that mold the strong foundation of a family. It’s not only saving the marriage but keeping the whole family together.



Saturday, May 17, 2008

i'll be yours my love


danny, who was then 17 and abby, who was a year older met for the first time during a town fiesta on august of 1967. they became lovers september of the same year but because of a simple kiss on the cheek that caught the eye of a malicious onlooker, they were forced to elope a month later and soon got married. after nine months ... came their firstborn child named,
ma. theresa